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Top 12 Books for Single Women on Self-Growth, Healing & Empowerment

Why Reading Is a Powerful Tool for Relationship Readiness

Being single doesn’t mean standing still — it’s a season full of potential. Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, preparing for love, or learning to love yourself more fully, reading can offer insight, validation, and deep transformation. As a relationship therapist, I believe every chapter we read can bring us closer to clarity, confidence, and connection — with ourselves and with others. Here's a curated list of ten empowering books that celebrate the journey of singlehood, self-love, and personal development for every independent woman out there:

12 Therapist-Recommended Reads for Single Women

“How To Be Single” by Liz Tuccillo

“The thing about being single is you should cherish it. Because, in a week, or a lifetime, of being alone, you may only get one momemnt. One moment, when you’re not tied up in a relationhip with anyone. A parnet, a pet, a sibling, a friend. One moment when you stand on your own, really, truly single. And then it’s gone.”

- Alice, How To Be Single written by Liz Tuccillo

“You Are a Goddess" by Sophie Bashford

Sophie Bashford's empowering book celebrates the divine feminine within every woman, offering guidance, encouragement, and affirmations to embrace one's innate power and wisdom." "

“A Return to Love" by Marianne Williamson

Marianne Williamson shares insights on cultivating love, forgiveness, and spirituality, fostering personal growth and emotional healing through the lens of A Course In Miracles.

“Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski

A compassionate, research-based guide to understanding your body, sexuality, and sexual empowerment.

“Eat, Pray, Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert

This memoir chronicles the author's journey to self-discovery through travel and introspection, emphasizing the importance of finding oneself before seeking romantic love.

"Women Who Run with the Wolves" by Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés

Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés reconnects women with their instincts and wild spirit, inspiring self-discovery and empowerment through archetypal storytelling.

“The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk

Understand how trauma lives in the body and how healing is possible through both science and connection.

"The Mountain is You" by Brianna Wiest

Explores self-discovery and healing, guiding readers to face personal challenges and emerge stronger, offering insights for empowerment and growth.

"Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear" by Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert inspires readers to embrace their creativity fearlessly, encouraging women to pursue their passions and live a fulfilling life, irrespective of relationship status.

"Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov

This unconventional relationship guide offers insights into self-confidence, independence, and the power of self-respect in relationships, emphasizing personal empowerment.

"You Are a Badass" by Jen Sincero

Jen Sincero's witty and motivational book offers practical advice and exercises to help women embrace their potential, overcome self-doubt, and create a life they love.

"Untamed" by Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle's memoir explores breaking free from societal expectations, advocating for authenticity, and embracing one's true self, making it a powerful read for single women seeking self-discovery and empowerment.

"The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brené Brown

Brené Brown's book explores embracing imperfections and vulnerability as strengths, guiding readers toward self-compassion, authenticity, and wholehearted living.

"The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz

Don Miguel Ruiz shares ancient Toltec wisdom, offering practical principles for personal freedom, self-love, and breaking self-limiting beliefs.

Single Now — But Growing Forward

This reading list isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering you were never broken. Whether you're in therapy or not, these books can be companions on your journey toward self-trust, emotional healing, and future-ready love. These empowering books celebrate the strength and resilience of single women, offering guidance for personal growth and fulfillment. Dive into these empowering narratives and embark on a transformative journey of self-love, growth, and empowerment. Whether you're on a quest for personal growth, seeking inspiration, or simply embracing the joys of singlehood, these empowering books celebrate the strength and resilience of women. Take your pick, immerse yourself in these empowering narratives, and embark on a journey of self-love, growth, and fulfillment. Looking to deepen your personal work with a therapist? Explore Individual Counseling → with our holistic relationship therapist in Boulder, CO, and if you’re ready to get the support you need, book a consultation and let’s begin your healing journey.

Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC

Founder of lovers COUNSELING, Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC, is a licensed relationship therapist specializing in trauma-informed couples therapy and modern love. Based in Boulder, CO, she helps individuals and couples build emotionally secure, resilient relationships.

https://www.loverscounseling.co
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