Essays and reflections on relationships, emotional intelligence, and prevention-first care—grounded in clinical insight and written with clarity.
Our journal explores how individuals and couples navigate connection, conflict, intimacy, and change over time. The writing is designed to complement therapeutic work, offering perspective rather than prescription.
The Lovers Counseling Journal
An Editorial Approach to Modern Relationships
The Lovers Counseling Journal offers thoughtful writing informed by relational science, clinical experience, and lived observation. Topics include emotional safety, attachment patterns, communication, intimacy, and the relational impact of stress and transition.
These essays are intended to support reflection and understanding—not to replace therapy or provide instruction. They reflect the same prevention-first philosophy that guides our clinical work.
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The #1 Relationship Skill Most Couples Overlook: Emotional Regulation
Emotional regulation is one of the most powerful tools for lasting connection — yet most couples don’t even know it’s missing. Learn how to strengthen this overlooked skill.
What Is Holistic Relationship Healing — and Why It Matters More Than You Think
Holistic relationship healing goes beyond communication tools. Discover how nervous system work, emotional intelligence, and trauma-informed care can help you build a relationship that’s safe, resilient, and built to last.
Healing Trauma with a Complex Trauma-Trained Therapist
Discover how Chloé Miller, MA, LPCC, utilizes the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM) to support individuals in healing from complex trauma and fostering resilience.
Healing the Past, Nurturing the Present: Understanding the Link Between Childhood Trauma and Adult Relationships
Uncover how unresolved childhood trauma impacts adult relationships—and how individual therapy can help you build emotional safety and secure love.
Healing Relational Trauma: How Counseling Supports Trauma Recovery
Relational trauma can shape how you experience love and safety. Learn how trauma-informed counseling helps you heal your relationship patterns and build a secure connection.
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