Healing Trauma with a Complex Trauma-Trained Therapist
Why Specialized Support Matters in Deep Healing
Trauma Isn’t Just in the Past — It Lives in the Present
How Complex Trauma Therapy Helps You Reclaim Safety, Trust, and Self
At lovers COUNSELING, we are proud to have Chloé Miller, MA, LPCC, as part of our team of skilled therapists. Chloé's expertise lies in the complex trauma-informed model, a specialized approach to supporting individuals on their healing journey. In this blog post, we will explore the significance of complex trauma, the transformative power of the trauma-informed model, and how Chloé's training at NARM (NeuroAffective Relational Model) has equipped her to guide clients towards resilience and growth. Trauma-informed counseling can help you understand and heal patterns shaped by past pain. Explore our holistic approach to trauma-informed individual counseling and trauma-informed couples counseling.
Trauma shows up in the most intimate corners of our lives — relationships, emotions, triggers, and patterns that seem to repeat no matter how hard we try to break them. If you've ever wondered why it's so hard to move on, you're not broken. You’re carrying pain that was never fully processed.
At lovers counseling, we offer therapy through a trauma-informed lens, rooted in nervous system regulation, attachment repair, and relational healing. With advanced training in complex trauma, I support clients in navigating the slow, meaningful work of healing — safely and at their own pace.
What Is Complex Trauma?
Complex trauma refers to prolonged and repetitive traumatic experiences, often starting in childhood, that deeply impact an individual's development and sense of self. These experiences can include emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, neglect, or witnessing domestic violence. Complex trauma can affect how individuals form relationships, process emotions, and cope with stress, leading to challenges in adulthood.
Complex trauma stems from prolonged exposure to overwhelming experiences — especially in relationships where safety should have been present but wasn’t. This might include:
Childhood neglect or emotional abuse
Growing up in chaotic or unpredictable homes
Repeated relational betrayals
Chronic emotional invalidation
Unlike single-incident trauma, complex trauma often affects:
Self-worth
Attachment patterns
Boundaries
Emotional regulation
Sense of identity and safety in relationships
Why Work With a Complex Trauma-Trained Therapist?
Trauma-informed counseling is a therapeutic approach that recognizes the profound impact of trauma on an individual's life and behaviors. It prioritizes safety, trust, and collaboration to create a supportive environment for healing. This empowering model focuses on building resilience, restoring a sense of agency, and fostering healthy connections with others. Healing deep trauma requires more than insight. It requires a therapist who:
Understands how trauma lives in the body
Knows how to pace the work without re-traumatizing
Can help you build internal safety before diving into the hard parts
Brings compassion and attunement to every session
In my work, I use Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and transpersonal counseling, helping clients gently reconnect to themselves, their inner parts, and their truth.
You deserve to feel whole again — not just functional, but fully alive.
Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC
Navigating Complex Trauma with Expertise: Chloé Miller, MA, LPCC, is a compassionate and highly trained therapist specializing in complex trauma-informed counseling. Her dedication to helping individuals heal from past traumas and transform their lives has been further enriched through her training at NARM.
The NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM)
NARM, or the NeuroAffective Relational Model, is an innovative approach to addressing complex trauma. This model integrates neurobiology, mindfulness, and somatic awareness to heal unresolved issues at their root. By exploring relational patterns and focusing on the body's responses, NARM empowers clients to break free from self-defeating behaviors and cultivate healthier ways of relating to themselves and others.
Healing through the NARM Trauma Processing Model
Chloé's training in NARM equips her to offer a profound healing experience to her clients. Through NARM, Chloé supports individuals in recognizing how past traumas influence their present experiences and relationships. By addressing core issues and building inner resources, she guides clients towards increased self-awareness, emotional regulation, and a deeper connection with their authentic selves.
A Holistic Approach to Healing
Chloé's approach to processing complex trauma is holistic and person-centered. She understands that healing is a unique journey for each client and she tailors her counseling sessions to meet you where you are emotionally and mentally. With empathy and non-judgmental support, Chloé empowers clients to reclaim their lives and create meaningful connections with others.
Embrace Your Journey of Healing with Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC
If you are seeking support to navigate the complexities of complex trauma, Chloé Miller, MA, LPCC, is here to guide you with compassion and expertise in individual counseling. Her training in the NARM model provides a transformative space for healing and growth. Take the courageous step towards healing and contact us today to schedule a session with Chloé at lovers COUNSELING.
