Rooted in Love,
Guided by Growth
Helping Couples and Individuals in Boulder, CO, Cultivate Lasting, Intentional Relationships Through Holistic Therapy.
Love is more than a feeling — it’s a practice. At lovers COUNSELING, we help you build a love that’s secure, intentional, and deeply connected. Whether you're starting fresh or working through challenges, our work is about healing past wounds, deepening your bond, and growing together, one session at a time.
Building Lasting Love Through Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO
Love thrives when we show up for it — with tools, self-awareness, and support. Our relationship therapist in Boulder blends evidence-based therapy with heart-centered connection to help you build the kind of relationship that lasts, guiding couples to strengthen trust, heal emotional wounds, and develop the skills that make love sustainable. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or decades into partnership, we meet you where you are and walk with you toward what’s possible.
Hi, I’m Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC
Founder | Relationship Therapist
Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO + Online
Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC—📍 Based in Boulder
🧠 Trauma-Informed | 🌈 Inclusive & Affirming | Sex ✚
I’m a relationship therapist based in Boulder, Colorado, specializing in holistic, trauma-informed, and attachment-based counseling for couples and individuals. With over a decade of experience, I help clients create secure, connected, and resilient relationships.
My approach blends Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and transpersonal counseling to support healing from the inside out. I hold space for deep transformation—whether you're working through old wounds, building emotional safety, or learning to love more consciously.
I believe self-awareness is the foundation of healthy relationships, and love is something we co-create with intention. If you're ready to grow—individually or as a couple—I’d be honored to walk with you.
Schedule a consultation today and begin your journey toward lasting love.
Love is a journey,
and therapy is where
we map the path forward.
The Secret to Lasting Love? Relationship Intelligence
Relationship Intelligence is the foundation of every thriving relationship.
It’s the ability to understand your emotions, attune to your partner, communicate clearly, and navigate conflict with care. It’s about more than just “talking it out”—it’s about building emotional trust, honoring your needs, and co-creating a connection that feels safe, deep, and alive. At lovers COUNSELING, we teach relational intelligence as a skillset—something you can learn, practice, and strengthen over time. Whether you're dating, engaged, or years into marriage, these tools help you show up with empathy, self-awareness, and intention. Relational Intelligence is the ability to understand, navigate, and nurture interpersonal relationships with awareness, empathy, and intention. It involves recognizing emotions (both yours and your partner’s), communicating effectively, managing conflicts, and fostering meaningful connections. At its core, relational intelligence is about building trust, deepening emotional bonds, and co-creating healthy, fulfilling relationships.
Our Guiding Principles & Values for Couples & Individual Relationship Counseling in Boulder
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Collaborative healing journey with therapist support.
We’re always in partnership—with ourselves, with one another, and with the healing process. As your therapist, I walk beside you every step of the way. I’m committed to being present, responsive, and supportive, creating a safe container for your transformation. You’re never alone in this work.
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Encouraging self-discovery through open exploration.
Curiosity is the gateway to self-awareness and change. Together, we explore your inner world and relationship dynamics with openness, compassion, and wonder—uncovering the insights that lead to growth and healing.
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Proactive strategies to build strong relationship foundations.
Love is a practice, and like all practices, it’s strongest when it starts early. I believe in proactive, skill-building therapy that strengthens your relationship before patterns become problems. Prevention is the foundation of lasting connection.
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Integrating emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.
You are more than your thoughts. My approach integrates the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual layers of your being. Healing is whole-person work—and when all parts are cared for, deep transformation happens.
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Utilizing humor and improv to foster connection and joy.
Play opens the heart. I use improv and laughter in therapy to spark joy, build connection, and break out of old patterns. In play, we find freedom, creativity, and the courage to show up more fully in love and in life.
Cultivate Lasting Love
Healing through connection, laughter, and soul.
My therapeutic style is dynamic—just like the people I work with. Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s why I blend traditional therapy with holistic practices, drawing from a wide toolkit of evidence-based interventions and embodied healing.
In addition to my training in relationship therapy, I’m certified in Reiki and Play Therapy, and I bring improv comedy into my work as a healing art. As a professionally trained performer with The Second City, I believe laughter is medicine—magical, pure, and profoundly transformational. Even in the hardest seasons of life, humor can create space for resilience, connection, and unexpected joy.
Ready to Transform Your Relationship?
Start your journey toward a stronger, more connected relationship. Schedule a consultation today and take the first step toward lasting love.
Whether you're navigating communication breakdowns, feeling stuck in conflict, or seeking deeper emotional and physical intimacy, you don’t have to do it alone. I help individuals and couples align, reconnect, and grow through skill-building, insight, and support. Let’s talk about your relationship goals and create a plan that supports lasting change.
We are an LGBTQIA+, kink, and gender-affirming practice that welcomes and honors all visible and invisible identities. lovers COUNSELING, LLC does not offer crisis mental health services. If you need immediate support or if you are experiencing a mental health emergency in Colorado, call Colorado Crisis Services at 1-844-493-8255. If you are outside the state of Colorado, please call 988.